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Scheana Shayhusband, Brock Davies. spoke out about what led to a relationship while she was pregnant with their daughter.
During Friday’s episode, July 25, from Shay’s “Scheananigans” podcastDavies joined as a guest to answer hot questions about his infidelity, who revealed his wife in her biography, My good side.
“I didn’t know how to treat (become a dad yet). I didn’t know how to treat that at all. In essence, I was always deviating to the worst version of myself,” explained Davies, 34. “I was afraid to be a parent again. I believed what I read. I thought I was a bad father.”
Shay, 40, suggested that Davies is “self-sabotaging” In the midst of his alienation Of his older children, winter and Eli, he shares with his ex-wife.
“That was just an example in itself deviating and that version of myself, right?” Davies replied. “I actually thought about it until years later. It’s not right to even have that as a response because that’s just me – again – blaming other reasons outside to face it for myself. So I apologize for even saying that.”
Shay took Bravo fans in surprise when she revealed in her biography earlier this month that her husband was now cheating before the birth of their daughter, summer, now 4. Speaking to her Weekly US In a unique cover story, Shay said there seconds she felt insecure for going public with the relationship.
“But I’d rather come out in my words because, unfortunately, someone else was involved in this situation, and at any time, he could come on,” he shared. “If there were no child or, honestly, if I had discovered when he did… 100 percent, without a doubt, I would have left. I have always been a person who said, ‘If I had ever cheated on, I would leave.’
Davies, for his part, explained how being married to a public figure allowed him to be “held liable” for his mistakes. “If anything, it probably made me a better version of myself because it has forced myself to that standard of being a better person,” he continued on Friday, adding, without the accountability, “I would probably do the same silly things, blaming others for the same reasons why I’m in that situation every day.”
In addition to answering Shay’s questions about the relationship, Davies published a message to those who criticize his wife’s decision to open for the obstacles in their marriage.
“I apologize to you, my love. And to everyone else out there, you left, to be honest. I feel there are a lot of judgments that are thrown around and all we need to do is look in a mirror, right? I’m a hypocrite. People are hypocrites sometimes,” he fired back. “I’ll fight for my wife until the end of the day. So if anyone has a problem with this relationship, they shouldn’t be coming to attack her. They should be coming to me.”
Davies also slammed the “burden” that a relative puts on the women involved, adding, “As you stay with me, you have no self -worth. If you leave, you can’t keep a man. Then that’s the other woman. If there’s another woman, it’s home. She’s a home. It is absurd. It is honest, honest, honestly, you bet about my wife.
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Why did Brock that?
“This is not an excuse. I want to give more context because through learning and development and working on myself, part of me is definitely a fundamental core of me. This is how I developed from my 20s, from my 30s and it was from my youth,” explained Davies. “Not making it an excuse, in 12 years of my education, I finished going to 15 different schools. This campaign really created achievement, this urge to find my value in achieving things and things I did.”
Davies said the instability “create this egomaniac”In it.
“I needed to find my value in my achievements. I easily made a lot of my emotions. I reduced a lot of my devastating qualities. I moved off the results,” he noted. “Looking back at that now, I can understand where there is a serious problem there. Only until I was open to learning more about that where I realized I was part of this problem. I can change it.”
What was the size of the relationship – and how ended?
“It was a sexual relationship. There was no dating. There was no court. Only that meeting was and then we had sex. It happened several times over a three week period,” Davies remembered. “I felt horrific about it. I was like, ‘This isn’t right. I don’t do this.’ I pulled the pin and then forgot about it.
Why did he wait to tell Scheana?
According to Davies, he managed to forget about his shortcomings until a year later.
“I was just defending myself. I was an absolute cowardice. I didn’t think about protecting you. I was thinking of defending himself and saving his face. Going back to what I was doing, I would reduce my actions and contribute and put it in a box,” he said. “But in this situation, I wrote it in a letter and then tried to forget about it. I think I was never going to do it again and I could move past this. I was just saving face. At the end of the day, it was selfish. It was a self-preservation tactic.”
Shay asked Davies if some of the sweet things she did for her during his pregnancy reflected his guilt for the relationship, he replied to him, “Once I made the decision to move on from that, I didn’t think about it. We were golden. It was only a golden back that I ran my friends.
What role did Scandoval play in Brock come clean?
Davies He told Shay about his mistake have Tom Sandov open for fraud Ariana Madix With their Costar Rachel “Raquel” Levissbut the VanderPump Rules Scandal was “fire on the flame.” Other factors, however, pushed Davies to come forward.
“The pressure I felt from being in San Diego and writing that letter (it caused),” he added. “I remember writing the letter and just carried it with me. Every day it was getting bigger and bigger.”
Did Brock become emotionally in their marriage out of guilt?
“That was the happiest day of my life, honey. It’s a psychotic part of me where I had that ability to forget. I moved on with my life until the damage that came back up of it picked up back up,” he told Shay. “I remember our marriage and the words that came out were just pure emotion.”
Davies continued: “If anyone wants to look at my brain scan, there is evidence that I do not make too much thinking other than emotion. I’m very emotional with things. It’s interesting because I don’t have that depth of emotion but I have emotion. So no, I was in love with that day in general.”
Did Brock have concerns about Scheana sharing this in public?
“Story to tell” It is not about the book per se – I’d rather talk about and take accountability for my actions that are in the book. ”
What lessons did Brock learn from this?
“I’ve learned two lessons. My wife had one now. Then recently I learned another lesson from my former. In a relationship, when one needs a place, they don’t need to ask for it. You should give them a place. Then when they need your support, you step in,” he noted. “It’s also about admitting when you’ve made someone wrong. When you have an ego is a problem. I’m the problem and I care about that.”
Davies went on to a promise to Shay on the air.
“I will continue to exhibit. I will continue to do the job. I will continue to be honest and build a foundation for our honesty family. I want to be a living example of what a man may be after he has shown his worst parts of himself,” he added. “That’s what I want to be for you, for the summer and for my two older children. Also to anyone else out there who has made mistakes.”
