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After a long and messy battle, Rachel Lindsay and Bryan Abolau Their divorce was completed in January – but she is still not happy with their agreement.
“I’m not really talking about the divorce because (I’m) not sure how I want to roll it all out,” explained Lindsay, 39, on the episode on Friday, April 4, Speckle‘s “Higher learningPodcast.
He noted, in terms of support for spouse and child support, that there is so much generalization, ”which causes problems.
“In terms of support for a spouse, even child maintenance – but I’m not going to talk to that because I don’t have children – it’s special for the participants,” Lindsay argued. “That’s going for their circumstancesAnd he also goes to what state they live in. “
The former Bachelorette, who married Abasolo, 45, in August 2019, After falling in love On the previous two -year show, he admitted, “It is annoying to hear so many people having judgment on my particular situation because they are compared to someone else who has been the subject of alimony.”
Lindsay revealed, “I have a problem with people who take The advantage of the system.
He admitted, “I’m really tired of a narrative, ‘Well, he deserves the money because he raised and sacrificed his career for her.’ I’m just gonna say this, and I’m going to say this once – not true.
Lindsay claimed that Abolau’s first movement came when he moved to Dallas after The bacheloretteBecause he “quit his job as soon as the show won” and was still employed. (He was a chiropractor when they met and Lindsay was an attorney.)
She pointed out that she had also relocated for him, when she moved to Miami, before she got a job in Los Angeles and made a “decision” once again uproot their lives.
“Marriage, partnership, relationships are also about sacrifice and compromise,” Lindsay told her listeners. “Some people put a little here, some people put a little there. It’s back and forth. It’s not about one person.”
Weekly US confirmed in January 2024 that Abolau filed for divorcelisted their separation date as December 31, 2023. Lindsay was Ordered in July 2024 To pay $ 13,257 a month to abolace in temporary spousal support plus $ 15,000 in attorney fees and $ 5,000 for forensic specialist costs, according to court documents obtained by Us.
In January Court Docs, Abolau said he “omit, leakage and release”Lindsay of” Anyone and All “payments in the future. He also acknowledged that the exes will also be responsible for their own attorney fees going forward. (The judgment revealed, however, that it is still due to $ 460,229.)
Lindsay revealed on Friday that she is “ready to give money” to Abolasolo, but it is Alimony Aka Spousal support that has remained a problem – as Abolasolo can get a job but she is alleged to choose not.
“Someone who is fully capable of working, who is licensed in many states, who could go to work for someone or start their own business or who may influence or could use the platform given to them to leverage other things should not be receiving married support,” he declared.
Lindsay explained, “I am not saying that my former did not deserve some sort of compensation.… What I do not agree with is to take advantage of Just because you can. “
He further claimed, “I was ready to share 50-50 though I don’t think he deserved. He got that and said he couldn’t support himself. That’s where the system has broken.”
Lindsay said that his “great amount” is because of the Spousal support every monthThey are not the 50-50 agreement in place.
“That’s where the greed comes in,” he continued, later explaining that she was calling Abolasolo a “beech” in the past because she did not just ask for Spousal support.
She remembered him “asking for my retirementMy stocks, my investments. Like all things, tax payments. … It was ‘I want half everything you have along with Spousal’s support.’ Nothing between them. And that, for me, is wrong. “
In retrospect, Lindsay said she believed that “jealousy and resentment” of abolao “was the power for their divorce settlement.