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Dear Proudly stated that changing diapers is a women’s business – or at least no business of it – as if it could not be a modern, active father in the year 2025.
The rapper, 50, made a confession of confession We belong togetherthe new reality show he and his wife Ashant44, starring in. The couple, who came back in 2023 after dating first between 2003 and 2013, shares Kareem Kenkaide’s son (known as KK), now 11 months – but sharing may be the wrong word, as it sounds like Ashanti makes all this heavy lifting.
“I take you back to this conversation we had before you kicked me under the table,” Nelly told his wife without impression after they discussed the fact that he was about to go on a tour without them. “I said, ‘Baby, I’ll give you the world. I don’t change any diaper.’”
“I’m not even going to lie,” Nelly went on to say. “You know, I have nothing to him.” Oh yes, for many new mothers, a moment comes when you realize that armed incompetence is very real, and that many men – not all men, of course not all men! – Still thinking that caring for their own child is “childminding.”
Fathers who do not change diapers in 2025 are not agility, if ever. Women are not born knowing how to change diapers, we have to learn it too – and quite often while our interior collapses, our breasts are lively as fierce balls of milky rabies and we have not slept in three days. Guess which boys, women tired too! And women don’t love dirt! But we know the mess and eye bags and chaos are an essential part of caring for the person you love the most in the world – your baby. As one fan on X said: “All these years stayed to have a baby by his teenager!” While another referred to the singer as “married single mother.”
Later in the episode, the star “Hot in Herre” (you know what’s hot? Fresh 3am diapers), is seen as a brawl to his friends that he told Ashanti he was all on it. “Until he can say, ‘I’m hungry,’ until he can say, ‘I need to use the bathroom,’ it’s going to be a lot in your lap,” he looks. “But as soon as he starts walking, I told her I said, ‘Enjoy.’ Cause as soon as he arrives in walking and talking, he with the crew.
Unusual for a professional musician with a string of world hits behind him and three Grammys, we learned that Nelly also seems to suffer from a disorder that pulls a lot of new fathers down: a selected hearing. “Are you actually at night?” He asks Ashanti. “I’m blessed with the tune.” Ashanti rightly declares this “absolutely ridiculous.”
And here’s the thing: Ashanti doesn’t seem like the kind of craft woman. We don’t think she cooks jam in a milky dress while Nelly’s is on the way. She is a confident modern woman who has (and still gets) her own success in the entertainment business. And hey, having your first baby in your 40s is not a joke: she will tackle a mixture of gratitude in being blessed with a healthy son by the soul that went away, and total fatigue, laborious.
Perhaps this is a fatal combination: is she too happy, or tired too much to complain? “I’m trying to be a better dad than I was,” said Nelly People Last month, adding that Ashanti nailed maternity. “I wish every mum could see the way she goes down a little,” he said. “You want every child to have that kind of love.”
Or maybe she’s playing the long game. Her boyfriends may have told her to deal with the diapers and the sleepless nights only, because they will be over in the vicinity of eye, and that’s when parenting becomes very challenging. Yup, around the time Nelly says that KK can join his “crew” is when Ashanti should say “bye babe! I’m going on holiday with the girls!” and leave him, knowing that he, like all good parents, has a supply of band aids on hand.
So actually, when Ashanti said “I’ve split for this trip. My first response is that I was very happy for him for putting him together. The wife and mother side of mine are like, ‘f—!'” The wife’s side and my mother’s side are a little sad. Did you know, Daddy’s gonna have gone for a long time, ”she may know exactly what she was doing. She can hunt down for a few months, watching Gilmore Girls With a cute baby, calm in her arms, safe knowing that when that baby becomes a toddler, it will be Nelly along.
Because there are actually a few things that are worse to deal with than late night diapers we think Nelly intends to lead on them (okay?): Poti training, childcare costs, vomiting bugs taking whole nurseries down, head lice, organizing birthday parties, awkward chats with parents you have nothing in common with you, giving your child, giving your child, giving your child, giving your child, giving your child, giving your child. Get your shoes, give your kids, get your shoes, give your child, give your child, give your child, be shot, get your shoes, give your child, give your child, give your child, give your child bite your child, get your kids having your child, get your child, get your child, get your child, get your child, get your kid, get your kids kids, put your child bite your child, get your kids biting your child having your child, FortniteFaced by a teacher who wants to know why your child asked another child if they wanted to “ride me wit,” the adolescent, underage drinking, college fees, get roasted by your child on Tiktok because you wear your socks the wrong way. Yes, there’s a lot of fun in the shop, – hopefully while Ashanti gets her nails.
Even Robert Deniro81 – That’s right, more than 30 years older than Nelly – knows that fathers need to step up too. He Revealed in 2023 Diapers did not change his youngest daughter Gia, but he was also in pains to emphasize that he was a practical parent in many other ways.
At Nelly defense – look, we like the guy’s music so we have to be nice here – he has done some serious parenting in his time. Kk is not his first child: he has four others: the daughter of Chanelle, born in 1994, the son of Cornell, born in 1999, both with his former Channetta Valentineand did a really amazing thing by adopting his sister Jackie DonahueChildren, Shawn and Sydney, when he died tragically from leukemia in 2005.
In 2021 he spoke to People For Fatherhood. “It wasn’t like I’m Superman,” he said. “Obviously, Nelly wasn’t there every day, but whatever needed to be done, I was definitely there. I didn’t miss grades, I showed for sporting events and whatever I could have many times, I had to be the discipline.” He added: “As badly as I felt and whatever I was going through, I can’t imagine what they were (Sydney and Shawn) going through. It’s one of those situations you don’t think about, it has to happen, that’s a family.”
We guess we’ll know how Ashanti really feels about all this when we see what happens next. In February he told the Today Show she hadn’t done with having babies. “I definitely want more kids, but maybe not right this moment,” he said, adding that KK is his “best friend.” He said: “It’s like the sweetest little angel baby. He laughs and smiles all day. I couldn’t even imagine my life without him now. I’m so happy.”
If she’s happy, then we guess it’s all good – for now. As long as she goes luxury adults just holiday destinations as she makes all those nightmarings, with Nelly forgetful sleeping by her side…