Exes Bachelor of Grant responds to it ripped between the 2 final 2

The count is on Ellis’s grant‘ending of The bachelorWill see the torn lead between his last two women.

“In the position I’m in, I’m going to get backlash anyway,” said the 31 -year -old leader Weekly US for the forthcoming finale during a unique interview in the Women say everything tap. “I think many people don’t know how difficult it is to be in a relationship with different people – for the best, I wouldn’t recommend it.”

Grant noted him to do “the best I could” as he developed feelings for multiple women.

“But what I want people to know about me is that I love hard,” he said. “I lead with my heart, and when you’re in a situation and you’re very open, you’re sure to develop feelings.”

A grant is currently down to its The final three:: Juliana Pasquaosa, Liano Garr and Zoe McGrady. Fans will have to watch the finale to see who gets the last rose-and watching his feelings back over his second best will affect his relationship with his fiancé.

Competitor Alli Jo Hinkes have said Us in the Women say everything The “it would definitely be hard to hear” how ripping a grant if he was not his winner.

“At the end of the day, here’s what we signed up for and it’s going to be a difficult decision,” he explained. “And these are the biggest decisions you could make in your life. I would have concerns if he wasn’t concerned – it’s your future. “

Alexe Godinwho got the first impression raised, also empathy towards a grant.

“You have two different girls. So if it fell in love with two different parts of these women for two different reasons, I can see how difficult it could be, ”he said. “Putting myself in his shoes, they are so different, but in such great ways. I don’t know what I would have done either. Would pick because you want that person to be so sure but you are also on The bachelorSo yes, it’s going to have feelings for more than one person. We will focus on developing that relationship after the show. “

Sarafien Watkins Also understands, calling a grant a “person of empathy and a caring person.”

“Understanding the process and knowing that a grant is a person who gives 100 per cent of his heart, we can understand why he would have such a difficult decision between two incredibly beautiful women,” he said. “I feel it would be something to talk through, but I can see why it is so difficult. … I think he can truly fall in love with two women. “

While the promo for the finale suggests that a grant is down to the wire in making its last selection, he denied that it was so close in a separate interview Us over the story of his cover.

“Definitely it wasn’t (down to) an hour. There were external factors that played into me to be hesitant, ”he said. “You don’t want to hurt people. You have a lot of pressure in being a different ethnic group leader. There is a different level of weight that comes with being a colored man in this role – and a different expectation. It leads to some extra thinking that deserves a little extra time. There were some things that were weighing and very difficult for me. But ultimately, you go with what makes you happy and you go with what you feel is going to be the best decision for your future. “

The bachelor Tunes on ABC Monday at 8 pm et.

With reporting by Sienna Leone